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People with eating disorders often have trouble admitting mdash; even to themselves imdash; that they have a problem. They may feel guarded and private about their problems. Trying to help someone who isn't ready or doesn't think help is needed can be really hard. Try not to get angry or frustrated. Remind your friend that you care. If your friend tells you it's none of your business or that there is no problem, you may have to talk to someone else about it.
If you get more worried and your friend still can't talk to you about what is going on, it might be time to talk to someone else. Try talking to your parents, the school guidance counselor or nurse, athletic coach, or even your friend's parents. This isn't easy to do because it can feel like betraying a friend. But part of being a good friend is to do everything you can to help.
Eating disorders can be caused by mdash; and lead to cmdash; complicated physical and psychological illnesses. You can support your friend by learning as much as you can about eating disorders. Your friend's body image and behavior may be a symptom of something else that's going on. Many organizations, books, websites, hotlines, or other resources are devoted to helping people who are battling eating disorders.
Most important, remind your friend that you're there no matter what. You want to help him or her get healthy again. Sometimes you'd be surprised how asking simple questions such as what can I do to help? or what would make you feel better? can lead to a great conversation about how you can help your friend heal.
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